The one thing that seems to get left out of "survivalist" or preparedness plans, on the blogs and sites I come across, is the mental health component. I think, perhaps, that even the worst doom and gloomer suffers from a bit of romanticism.
"Suppose the power goes out," says the Doom and Gloomer. "Wouldn't that be fantastic? We could haul in some wood and snuggle in front of the fireplace. No TV, no video games, no Internet-- it'd be just like camping! We could cook all that wholesome oatmeal in the dutch oven and read to one another all evening. Even use our fireplace popcorn popper! Good times!!"
Yeah, I suffer from that too. You try to be balanced, you know? You say "Well, okay, jobs are disappearing like beers at a frat party, but we'll all be closer to our families." Or: "Well, I may never eat clementines again, but I'll be developing a relationship with my local farmers." Or: "If there's no TV for a week it will bring my family together."
It's mostly true, too. But then again, last night my family was brought together -- all of us having a grand old time and laughing our butts off for 2 hours -- by The Simpsons Hit and Run video game, in which you not infrequently mow down cartoon pedestrians as you mishandle your vehicle. (In my defense, that's not the point of the game and we try hard to stay on the road! And if you hit someone, they just yell at you as they roll out of your way.) To be honest, I just can't see Candyland or Chutes & Ladders (other games which all 4 of us can play) as being anywhere near that much fun. When it comes to old-fashioned values, The Simpsons Hit and Run game fails miserably on all counts, but that much laughing together has to be good for us. So I suppose I try to look on the bright side, but I also try not to romanticize things like a Depression, peak oil, power outages, or having to stay inside the house for 3 solid weeks because of H5N1. The fact is, I kind of like the 21st century. I can't help it -- that's what I'm used to.
My own (minor!) "crisis" experience, when I went without power for 4 days in August of 2003, was far from romantic or refreshing. I huddled near the radio, clinging to our local radio station like a lifeline, praying the batteries wouldn't quit, because by the time I'd gotten to the grocery store (45 minutes into the blackout) they were totally sold out of batteries. And ice. And bottled water. And any kind of meat you'd typically grill.
Let me tell you, if you're an Internet junkie -- and we know who we are -- you need radios. I mean, you need a hand-crank back-up radio, a regular radio or two, alkaline batteries, and possibly rechargeable batteries and a solar battery charger, plus headphones or ear buds to save those batteries. Maybe even a shortwave radio. My MP3 player has FM radio and I can charge it in a few minutes off the car battery, without starting the car; if you have one, consider getting the car charger. You might even consider one of those radios that picks up TV, even though supposedly they are always about to halt old-fashioned TV network broadcasting. If you are the kind of person who checks the internet more than a couple of times a day, you need INFO and you need it YESTERDAY, and thank god the local station put on BBC at 10pm so I could go to sleep feeling connected to the rest of the world.
Secondly, you need light. Flashlights don't cut it, not even close. A single night of reading by flashlight is enough to depress you and make your children crazed and creeped out. I would aim for at least one small room that you can keep pretty well illuminated. There are bright LED lanterns that are totally kid-safe, including some that are solar. There's the old-fashioned kerosene lantern, the antique oil lamp (which we used in 2003-- thank you Grandma for giving it to me!), and there are 100-hour candles if you can manage those safely with the kids in your family. (The 100-hour candles are round, squat, and hard to tip over.) Hand-crank flashlights are a good back-up and kids think they're fun, and I'm glad that we own a couple. But they do get tiresome, so I think recharge batteries with an AC and/or solar recharger are a good bet. By the way, Costco sells a recharge battery set that has the "spacers" that convert an AA battery to fit a C or D slot. This means that with one set of AA batteries and one AA recharger, you can put batteries into almost any flashlight. Lastly, head-lamp style flashlights which strap onto your head may look ridiculous, but hey-- it's a no-hands flashlight. Could be very useful. Kids find them amusing.
So again, from my experience, a couple of flashlights somewhere in the house doesn't cut it. It's not a matter of "Can I get to the bathroom without breaking an ankle?" It's a matter of "Can I get through 4 days without power while not becoming depressed /creeped out by darkness every evening?" Some kind of little battery / solar nightlight, or light sticks, are a good idea if you have kids in the house, as they can panic when waking up in pitch darkness.
And then, of course, you need entertainment. If you can work out some way of listening to an audiobook, that's fairly entertaining and can be done on batteries. Obviously someone can read aloud. You can also put aside some "beach reads" for the adults & some previously unseen books for the kids -- I'll bet your local library has cheap paperback novels -- for emergency escapism. I've also put aside sudoku, crosswords, cards, games, puzzles, etc. Keep in mind that during crude oil disruptions schools will be closed, so whether you homeschool or not, in such a scenario you'd be (or someone would be) with your kids all day, and possibly without power. (We take coal to our power plants largely by diesel truck-- brilliant, eh?)
And, for those who are stockpiling beans, barley, wheat, rice, and other wholesome Amish fare -- may I suggest Doritos and candy? (Okay... organic non-GMO tortilla chips and fair trade cocoa powder?) Don't forget junk foods as a treat. Even if you very rarely eat junk food, your family may need something to cheer them up, make things a little easier. Canned soups (Costco has good deals on Progresso), chewing gum, chocolate, potato chips, and so forth may compensate for other inconveniences and keep everyone in a cheerier state of mind. (Whiskey or half a case of Charles Shaw doesn't hurt either, for extended disasters... for adults, I mean!)
So that's my two cents on crisis preparation, on the sanity front:
Connection, light, entertainment, and treats.